Totally agree. Through my .mil experiences, I've seen many escape this life. Problem is, after a while, those left behind come to expect/demand that the one who has succeeded will "share the wealth." If they don't, they are pretty much disowned/shunned. Nice. Now the person who made something out of their life has lost family/friends, and has to live with that. Not much of a morale-builder and only a small percentage are able to move beyond that, IMO/experience.Because there are now multiple generations of people who know nothing else there, that's how. Self perpetuated. Only way to break that cycle is for one of them families to get a kid into college or the military, to travel and see something different, a better way of doing things... AND THEN once having broken the cycle he comes back to the old neighborhood and plants the seed of change