Bowhntr6pt
Master
First off... prayers for you and your family, I can't even begin to think how difficult it is to have such a loss. My God be with you on this journey that is no doubt going to last a lifetime. It's AOK to go have private time and let it out.
With that said, and I mean absolutely no disrespect but it needs to be said, not many things tear a marriage/family apart like the loss of a child. I've seen it a few times in my line of work. People handle the death of a child in different ways and usually the mother is the one that exhibits the most behavior changes from what I've seen.
Continue to stay strong for your family and continue to communicate your feelings to your wife. I pray she turns to you and family for support vs. outsiders... I can understand how that adds to your load that only you can carry. I hope her external communications are just a "reaching out" for some answer(s) that she might not never find... I hope she realizes this sooner than later.
In the end, there may come a time where you might have to make some hard calls as to where your life's path takes you and who joins you on that path. It's my prayer that your family unit takes that path going forward.
With that said, and I mean absolutely no disrespect but it needs to be said, not many things tear a marriage/family apart like the loss of a child. I've seen it a few times in my line of work. People handle the death of a child in different ways and usually the mother is the one that exhibits the most behavior changes from what I've seen.
Continue to stay strong for your family and continue to communicate your feelings to your wife. I pray she turns to you and family for support vs. outsiders... I can understand how that adds to your load that only you can carry. I hope her external communications are just a "reaching out" for some answer(s) that she might not never find... I hope she realizes this sooner than later.
In the end, there may come a time where you might have to make some hard calls as to where your life's path takes you and who joins you on that path. It's my prayer that your family unit takes that path going forward.